So I've decided to make this into an 'advice' blog because my main blog gets so many questions!!
If you ever wanna have a chat about ANYTHING ask is always open :)
and if you ever want to come off anon and chat in private just let me know and I'll be sure to reply privately.
Other than that I hope you have an amazing day ^.^
Anonymous: im a girl and have never dated i get jelous of other girls really easily and envy their bodies/ hair etc but i know im straight how can i stop being so obsessed with how perfect they are and get a proper guy - do proper guys only exist? too many romannce films ive seen have got my hopes up too high and im lacking self confidence i get unfortatble when a guy looks at me and become this bitch girl whose so stuck up i dont want to be like this anymore! :(
Well, you’ve acknowledged that you’re like this, so that’s a step! You just have to tell yourself that you’re beautiful just the way you are. It’s so corny, but it’s true, you just have to be comfortable with yourself. I think we all compare from time to time but it’s something we all have to work on. Those films do get your hopes up! The perfect guy for you is out there somewhere, you just have to keep looking, but he’ll come to you. So yeah to build up your self confidence, just recognize your insecurities but know that you are loved and fine. Try to focus on the good things and stay positive. Even fake it if you have to! It’s going to be a work in progress, something that you’ll need to keep battling, but eventually you’ll win!
Anonymous: i dont know how to act around guys i like i get all sweaty and nervous and its like i have a panic attack what is wrong? help
Some people are just like that, I’m the same way haha. But it happens to a lot of girls don’t worry. You just have to power through and tell yourself that it’s not that big of a deal really, this could be the best decision of your life! If it ever gets to serious then don’t hesitate to talk about it to someone but I mean it happens to everyone so it’s fine!
Anonymous: How do you get people to ask you questions on tumblr?? Because I have reblogged different things, like blog rates, but no one sends me anything... v.v
I have the same problem on my main blog! Maybe join some networks and make some tumblr friends who will ask you things. Then you can post your promos and stuff on there and people will mostly be nice and ask. Niamh has a lot of followers, so I guess that gets people to ask, especially if there’s a promo involved because they’re going to be promoted to lots of dashes. And aww if you message me I will follow you and ask you questions babe!
Anonymous: Hi,so i had a sleepover at mine last weekend w some mates including da guy i used 2 like.we ended up sleeping next 2 each other but in da middle of the night when i think he thought i was asleep i felt a hand touch my ass (the sleeping bag wasnt over my ass) but at first i thought it was a mistake but then i felt a more forceful hand squeeze my ass so i moved my sleeping bag over my ass but he then lifted the sleeping bag up &continued to squeeze my ass. he doesnt know i know what do i do?
Do you still like him? Or does he know that you (used to) like him? This is a really situation but I would go talk to him if you can because that’s really the only way you can know why he did it. You can also get one of your friends to get some info but it would be nice to knwo then you can handle it from there :)
Anonymous: i have this girl in my grade, and i dont know her that well, but i do sometimes talk to her. something happened to her. sometimes she tells me that she doesnt wanna live anymore and starts having suicidal thoughts. what can i do to help her?
Tell someone ASAP who can help her. Just try being really supportive, she needs a friend right now. There’s a reason she reached out to you, so just continue to be a supportive person towards her.
Anonymous: So this guy and I had sex about two wks ago and he keeps messaging me wanting to hang out again. I want too- but idk why i'm scared for him to see my body again. Plus too, I don't want to get too attached if all he wants is a friends with benefits situation. He acts sweet and sincere with me, but idk if he's like that with all the girls. At first I wanted a fwb relationship, but now idk because it's like he's looking for a gf. I just don't know if i'm the girl he wants.. Any advice? thanks x
I would just go to hang out. You can seriously talk to him about what kind of relationship you guys have/ want. Then everything will be clear.
Anonymous: Hello! I have had a crush on this guy for a really long time, he is seriously the sweetest thing ever but I never had the guts to talk to him. I told this girl who I was friends with but not super close with that I liked him and then she started talking to him. It seriously kills me to see them together because she cheats on him with her ex boyfriend. He snapchats me sometimes and I don't know if he does that just to get back at her:( do you think I should try to talk to him or give up?
I think you should try and talk to him! You never asked him out before, so he probably doesn’t even know you like him! I know you can do it!
Anonymous: So my best friend asked me if it was okay to hang out with the guy I liked and I said yes because I didn't think much of it and one of her friend's boy friend is friends with him and they were all going to hang out. Well, she's stopped talking to me about it and I found out today that they've become a 'thing' and she's having another guy talk to him about her and I don't know really know what to do because I told her she could, but I didn't think it would get this far.
That’s too bad, but I would say she’s not your friend anymore. Try talking to her about it, it’s really sad that she did this. Maybe you guys can work it out. Good luck!
Anonymous: I asked the question about the guy I like liking another girl, and I just can't move on. It's too hard and I have tried so much
I know it’s hard, but you’ll get through it. These things don’t happen overnight. Try talking to someone about it, but just know that you’ll get over it, you’re better without him.
Anonymous: my boyfriend is a good person, I know he is, but today he got arrested because he wanted to save his friend. he robbed a store with his friend, best friend actually, because his best friend needed the money desperately. I don't know why, but my boyfriend planned the whole thing and I'm scared. how can I trust him? especially when he's with his friends? we've been together for a year and I know most people would say to break up with him, but it's hard.
It would be a good idea for you guys to take a break if you’re really mad at him. It seems like you know hwy he did it, it was for a good cause, but really it depends on your feelings. Just talk to him about it and make sure you know the story. Then if you’re okay with it you guys don’t have to break up.