THEMES THAT YOU LIKE
YES I TURNED THE ASK OFF OVER ON MY OTHER BLOG AND YOU'VE PROBABLY BEEN REDIRECTED HERE.
YES I WILL TURN MY OTHER ASK ON AGAIN BUT FOR RIGHT NOW QUESTIONS ARE ONLY BEING ANSWERED HERE :D
plzdonthatemeh!!
Anonymous: (i'm the person who wrote about having no followers on any of my social sites) I don't really worry about it that much,but it bothers me because people really hate me in real life as well for stupid things like my hair,so i can't really 'stick with friends' and have fun. I'm sorry if you're bothered by my stupid problem,since it's my second message. Should i delete my social media networks,since i have basically nothing to do on there?

It’s okay, everyone has their own problems. But you could maybe try making friends, I’ve made a lot on Tumblr. I’m sorry people “hate you”, but I’m sure not every single person feels that way.

-Alanna

Anonymous: Have you ever felt worthless to everyone around you..? I feel like this all the time. I feel so alone.

You’re not worthless. People who care about you are all around. Maybe they don’t say it all the time, or maybe you don’t feel it, but they do. I know for sure that you are truly valued in this world.

-Alanna

buddacups: Is you name pronounced neev?

Yeah, Niamh’s name is lol

-Alanna

Anonymous: Hey I have a medium sized nose and it's not supper straight no one has ever cimmented on it but have on some of my friends noses I'm really self conscious about it and my dad &brother make fun of me and it makes me so upset dose it make me ugly?:(

No, of course not! People make fun of such little things, they have no idea how much it ruins someone’s self-esteem. But every single person has flaws, whether you can see them or not. I would tell your father and brother that their teasing upsets you. And as for people commenting on your friend’s noses, sure they have a great nose, but you have other great qualities, too!

-Alanna

Anonymous: there is this guy I really like, but I just don't know if he likes me or not.. we went shopping together two times and also had a phone call for about half an hour. recently he asked me how I was and stuff, but he doesn't reply to my messages very often and I know that there are lots of girls he texts very often :( idek, like I think I'm not completely nothing to him (cause at least he asked me to go shopping and called me) but I guess I'm just one of a lot girls...

Maybe you should ask him out and see how your relationship goes! he seems like a nice guy, but you’re right, he’s not really being consistent. Sometimes you have to put in a little effort to make a relationship get started, but don’t be afraid to end it if you realize he’s not fully commited.

-Alanna

Anonymous: Hey. This might seem like a stupid problem,but whatever. On all my social media sites i have an embarrassing amount of followers,and it kind of bothers me,because people usually follow interesting/attractive people and i feel like i'm kind of not good enough to even be on there. I wrote a blog (not on Tumblr) for a year,and wrote over 100 posts and i got 0 followers and 0 comments. It's not that i'm seeking attention,but i just feel like i'm not attractive or interesting or anything,really.

You are attractive and interesting! It’s just that being on the internet is hard. On my social media sites, I really only follow celebrities and people I know, I don’t care about how many followers I have really. Although it’s nice to have people to talk to, the sites are supposed to be fun, especially Tumblr, so you shouldn’t worry so much about the followers and just be yourself and have fun. I would try sticking with some friends that you can talk to a lot, it’s more enjoyable to have a little “crew” than thousands of followers who you don’t know.

-Alanna

Anonymous: Im not sure if my question went thro :/ complicated guy bestfriend situation.. trying to figure out how to get it back to normal..? did you get that?

No, I got one like that but it wasn’t complicated. What’s going on?

-Alanna

Anonymous: have you ever had to pretend someone means nothing to you in front of everyone when they used to and still mean everything to you, whlie they have someone by their side that means everything to them..

I personally haven’t been through that. It is hard to pretend and get over them, especially when you know you can’t be together. But you will get over them eventually, I promise.

-Alanna

Anonymous: Is it possible for a guy and girl to be friends without anything romantic going on at the same time. If that make any sense?

Yes, it’s possible! In movies ad everything, they make it seem like it always turns to love for some reason!

-Alanna

alluringluxuries: <3 this is heartache on the big screen <3

ahhh I was listening to that like 5 minutes ago >.< so much perfect